Family

OK I know I have been really slacking in the blog front and I apologize, but I have been BUSY! For those of you who don’t know, Sean and I are joining the Peace Corps and are just months away from our assignment. I say ‘months’ in a broad, general sense, because I really have no idea when we will be leaving, but it feels safe to say it will be sometime in 2010.


Our lease is up on March 21st, so our last day of work is going to be this Friday. This gives us a month to get things in order and come up with a plan, hopefully with information on our PC departure to help make those plans concrete. We have had very solid, exciting plans leading up to now but it is becoming apparent that we shouldn’t assume anything is set in stone until we get out official Peace Corps invitation. And no matter what, that invitation will be our focus- any other plans are very easy to put on hold for a departure! We are expecting it any day now (hopefully) and we will update you then on what our next steps will be.

It is a shame that I haven’t been good about posting because we had a very exciting December and January. Now the events feel so long ago that I feel silly posting too much about them, but they were all too memorable to ignore. All of the following pictures are taken from other people’s Kodak Gallery albums because I was a bad photographer during this time!


A few days before Christmas we headed back to Pennsylvania to spend the holiday with the Strongs. As is always (always!!) the case in the Strong household, those days were absolutely filled with laughter. And delicious food (another given). Sean and Chris spent a good amount of time playing in the snow- still cannot believe that we moved all the way out to CO and PA has way more snow than we do right now! We were able to spend both Christmas Eve and Christmas day together, it was so refreshing to have a traditional family-centered Christmas after having spent last year’s at Beaver Creek learning to snowboard. Mostly, though, we enjoyed just being able to be together-the first time the whole family has been able to get together since we moved to Denver.

Sean, me, Chris, Greg and Jocie on our last day (note the Eagles spirit. They won!)

Christmas tree! We haven't had one in a few years and it definitely put us in the Christmas spirit

Some of Sean's oldest friends came by to catch up during our visit

Sean on the snowskate

Chris snowskating

For New Years we headed to St. Louis where we celebrated my Grandma’s 90th birthday! 90!!!! It was so fun to be able to celebrate her amazing life with most of our family. Because Grey was just two weeks old, the Crick and Kate Helfrich family stayed in DC. They were greatly missed! Besides ‘just’ celebrating the big birthday, we also had quite a bit of fun exploring St. Louis with all our nieces and nephews. Trips to the Magic House and the unforgettable City Museum were tons of fun and the City Museum in particular was geared for not just the young, but the young at heart.

The Whole Clan (minus a few) Grandma and her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren

Trying to get the great grandkids to sit for this shot was not easy

Grandma plus most of the Helfrich family

Some of the group at the City Museum

Kaitlyn and Mattie on the train

Sean and Beth give the hamster wheel a try

Carrie enjoying the Magic House (I'm seeing 'unlimited minutes' in her future)

Enjoying some quality time with Tommy

Beautiful Zoӫ with a gorgeous hat made by her mama

In the middle of January we went to Charlotte for my mom’s surprise 60th birthday celebration. This time the entire family was able to make it. The weekend celebration involved a surprise luncheon, a delicious dinner with a beautiful slideshow and an absolutely fabulous Cast Iron Filter reunion concert! There was also a lot of family time down at Glassy to make the whole weekend complete.

Sorry mom, but this is the best way to show how surprised you were!

Once the shock was over she was very very happy

Mom and Dad enjoying the slideshow (a surprise for both of them)

Enjoying the CIF reunion show

Some of the family even joined in on stage

Meeting baby Grey for the first time

Looking at all of these pictures makes me realize how pictures only take you so far. The pictures don’t show you how it felt like to celebrate Christmas as a whole family or what it sounded like when Grandad’s voice came on Grandma’s slideshow. You can see my mom’s reaction to the surprise but you can’t feel what it was like to be a part of that moment. You can see all of those adorable Helfrich babies/kids, but it doesn’t express what it was really like holding my newest nephew for the first time or suddenly realizing my first niece is almost seven!



I think about all of these things as we get ready to go to the Peace Corps. For 2 years I will be living through pictures- pictures that I will be so thankful to see! But there is a big part of me that knows pictures only show you so much, that behind every picture is a laugh, a tear or special moment that I will have to wait to have in person- or some that I will just miss entirely. We treasure pictures because of the real-life moments that they represent, and though I will be able to get the gist of the moment I know I will be missing the memory making behind them. It is all a trade off, of course, as I know that wherever we are and whatever we are doing we will be making memories of our own. They might not have family at the center, but they are possible because of the families we have been blessed with. We grew up knowing the importance of helping others and of living life to the fullest- both which require sacrifices. Thousands of miles away, as we are every day, we have and will have our families guiding us and giving us strength. And there are always the memories to make when we get back.